Articles tagged with: Caregiving

Early Alzheimer Symptoms

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Readers,

Here’s another impromptu entry regarding a great new Web site I came across on Alzheimer’s disease that takes the issue to a whole new perspective: early-stage diagnosis. It’s called EarlySymptomsAlzheimers.com. The site is being launched by pharmaceutical giant Roche to commemorate Alzheimer’s Day, and, to my knowledge, it’s the first available Web site fully dedicated to early-stage (prodromal) Alzheimer’s disease. It’s definitely worth a look.

Targeting healthcare providers, patients and caregivers alike, the comprehensive Web site was developed to draw attention to the latest progress in exploring the value of early diagnosis and treatment for … read more

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How to Help Prevent a Stroke

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

My mother died from complications of a stroke just last year. Dad lives with us now, and I am terrified that the same may happen to him, and that we’ll have to put him in long-term care or something. What do you know that can maybe help us prevent this from happening? Any suggestions at all would be welcomed. Thanks! -Isaac

Dear Isaac,

I appreciate your concern. I can hear it in your words, but strokes often come completely out of the blue, perplexing clinical professionals even to this day, despite all that has been learned. With so many variables and … read more

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Tips to Ward Off Memory Loss

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

Mom is going on 82, and her mind is still pretty sharp. But she has been showing signs of a slipping memory. What’s the latest thinking out there when it comes to seniors and memory loss? How can I help her? -Jessica

Dear Jessica,

At 82, memory loss is a common thing, part of the normal aging process. Studies are going on all the time to discover ways for fending off this natural functional erosion of the mind, as well as the more serious kinds of memory problems, such as those related with Alzheimer’s disease and other cognitive issues. … read more

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Alzheimer’s Disease Research

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

I see that you write extensively about Alzheimer’s disease in your blog. I think we might be dealing with the beginning of this with my mother, unfortunately, but we’re in the middle of tests right now, and we don’t know for sure. Is this awful disease preventable in any way?  -Joanne, Elmont, NY

Dear Joanne,

If I write so much about Alzheimer’s disease, it is because of its rampant and spreading prevalence in our nation’s rapidly aging boomer population. So many more people seem to suffer from it with every passing year — and not just individuals, but their families … read more

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Medicaid and Assisted Living

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

We are considering The Bristal for our mother and have set up an appointment to visit one of The Bristal communities. She has resources now, but does The Bristal accept medicaid when the funds run out? -Mona

Dear Mona,

All of The Bristal communities are private pay and do not accept Medicaid. It is important that you take a look at the amount Mom receives from Social Security, and what investments she has, to assess how long her money will last before you make any commitment to assisted living. It is not fair to either Mom or you if … read more

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Yoga and Tai Chi for Seniors

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

I read your recent blog entry about Tai Chi being a great exercise for seniors. My seventy-plus-year-old mom is more interested in Yoga, though. I was wondering if there were similar benefits. -Andrea, Sands Point, NY

Dear Andrea,

In fact, there are many similar benefits between Yoga and Tai Chi. Yoga is not only an excellent way for elderly adults to improve strength and flexibility, but studies are showing it’s also good for improving overall balance — especially in older stroke patients. And, of course, it goes without saying how vital good balance is to seniors, which can help … read more

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Is Assisted Living the Right Fit?

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

I just wanted to preface my inquiry by saying what a lovely picture of you on the blog homepage! But down to business…my 83 year old uncle has become frail, forgetful and, sometimes, downright mean. My family and I simply cannot handle him any longer. He needs not only physical, but psychiatric care. Would the Bristal Assisted Living communities be an ideal choice for my ailing uncle? P.S. He refuses to move anywhere where he cannot watch his weekly episodes of TLC’s “I Didn’t Know I Was Pregnant”. Thanks so much for your help. -Jennifer Granger

Dear Jennifer,

Don’t … read more

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Assisted Living: An Option for Married Couples

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

My parents were in a very bad car accident and their healing/ needs are different. At this point, dad has returned home, but has no car, and now requires a walker. Mom is due to be discharged soon from the nursing rehabilitation facility, but with her broken leg still requires a wheelchair. I am considering a Bristal Assisted Living environment as the next step for mom, though she still requires continued physical and occupational therapy, wants to return to her independent status, but with the wheelchair, has limitations.

I suspect that it is unlikely that they will ever resume their … read more

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How Do I Make Caring for an Aging Parent a Little Easier?

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

I was wondering if you had any ideas to share about how to make caring for an aging parent maybe a little easier – not that it’s ever easy. -Lenore, Oyster Bay, NY

Dear Lenore,

Believe me when I say, this is probably the most common question I get. But luckily, there is a ton of information out there to help families like yours cope. I comb through articles all the time to check on the latest tips and techniques when it comes to eldercare issues, so here are just a few quick ideas that you just may find … read more

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Reaction Problems with Prescriptions

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

My mom takes quite a regimen of drugs. I ask her doctor all the time to be sure about the mix, but I often wonder if there are dangers between certain combinations. Are there common reaction problems I should look out for? -Theresa, Floral Park, NY

Dear Theresa,

It’s a great question, because every year, especially among the elderly, there seem to be more and more accidental conditions being caused by bad reactions between drugs – or what are called contraindications. Of course, I need to be careful here, Terry, since I am neither a pharmacist nor a pharmacologist, … read more

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Dad Acting Out

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

My Dad is known as the jokester and the prankster at the Assisted Living community where he lives. He’ll do anything for a laugh, and I wonder if his shenanigans are just a way to mask something deeper that hurts him inside. I really don’t know if I should encourage or discourage this behavior, which can often be embarrassing and make him seem silly. -Darlene, Smithtown, NY

Dear Darlene,

Is he hurting anyone? Are the jokes overtly at someone else’s expense? Are the other residents or staff complaining? Is this sense of humor something new and uncharacteristic — out … read more

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Adjustment to Assisted Living

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

How can I help my mom adjust to her new Assisted Living home? I wouldn’t say she’s depressed, but she just doesn’t have that same spark and joy. Any fun activities you might suggest to get her feeling good again? -Robert, Mineola, NY

Dear Robert,

Great question, and it’s a common situation. Your mom is going through a tremendous life change right now, and it can certainly be overwhelming. Of course, first and foremost, check with her doctor; be sure there isn’t anything more serious going on than just a dip in her mood and behavior. If it’s just … read more

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Candidate for Assisted Living?

Posted by: The Bristal

Dear Maryellen,

My 87-year-old mother-in-law is quite frail, barely walks and had her colon removed due to cancer. In addition to a stoma, an ileostomy bag and dementia, she does not relate well to others and can be quite combative. My wife and I can no longer care for her. We were wondering if she would be a candidate for The Bristal. What is your monthly charge, is there a community entrance fee and is that fee returnable? -Robert

Dear Robert,

Thank you for visiting thebristal.com. I am sorry to hear that your mother-in-law is so frail. I truly wish your … read more

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